RALEIGH -- You're engaged, now what? That's the question more than 2 million Americans find themselves asking each year.  It's a multi-billion dollar business but wedding planning can be time consuming, stressful and even confusing. 

We sat down with wedding coordinator Diane Tighe for a breakdown of the wedding planning essentials. Tighe is an expert in the field, acting as Director of Catering & Conference Services for the Washington Duke Inn & Golf Club and JB Duke Hotel. 

Here's a breakdown of what Tighe says is essential to remember when planning your wedding: 

Choose your vendors – most can’t do more than one wedding a weekend:

  • Reception planner – is there someone at reception location that should be involved?
  • Officiant
  • Caterer: On site or off-site catering, style of catering, plated, buffet, stations/heavy hors oeuvres, bar options
  • Florist: bridal bouquet, bridal party attendants, alter pieces, wedding cake enhancement, reception décor
  • Cake
  • Entertainment: DJ or band?
  • Photographer
  • Transportation

Choose a dress code/attire and make sure your guests are aware in advance.

Choosing your Matron/Maid of Honor and wedding party.

  • Be specific in what you want from your wedding party as a support system and day off assistance

How many attendants will you be inviting?

  • Exact dates and schedules for wedding weekend events
  • Rehearsals: Ceremony and rehearsal dinner

Information provided by Diane Tighe