Sometimes itās the simple things, like holding hands while enjoying your own backyard.
āSitting here in the peace and quiet, itās serene. You just listen to the sound of the water and you can reflect on everything youāve been through and what the future holds,ā Debra Kobler said.
Itās a future that wasnāt so clear when we first met Debra and Dale Kobler back in November 2020. Debra had just left the hospital after months of battling the effects of COVID-19. She was in a coma for six weeks. It nearly killed her.
āI think every day, I pray every day and thank God for allowing me to live again, you know?ā she said.
She lived through COVID, but now sheās living with Long COVID, ongoing health problems after the initial symptoms of the illness. At first, she had to learn to walk and talk again. There was speech, physical and occupational therapy. Trouble with her memory and the feeling of a foggy brain.
āOne of the first things they asked me to do, they put a towel on the table, they said okay I need you to fold this,ā she explained. āAnd with the brain fog I couldnāt wrap my brain on how to fold it. I tried several times. Iām like what the heck, itās a towel, how could I not do this?ā
But her condition has slowly improved over the years. Sheās no longer in therapy, but she still struggles with the volume of her voice, and nerve damage that causes trouble balancing.
āWell, you know everyone wants to hold their wifeās hand, right?ā Dale said. āBut when weāre going over something uneven like this or something that could trigger her balance issues, just hold her hand. Thatās all she needs.ā
Despite some of the difficulties, Debra has since been able to return to work full-time.
āIt was my goal to get back to where I was,ā she said. āI mean physically Iām not 100% yet and I donāt know if Iāll ever be. Iām back mentally with my job, with my life. I have my life back.ā
That hasnāt happened without more trying times, including a second bout with COVID last year.
āIt brought back a lot of bad memories, yes,ā she said. āAnd I just prayed and prayed and prayed that I could come out of this quickly and without incident.ā
Thankfully, she was able to do that. And with the support of family, friends, even complete strangers, sheās pushing forward with a positive attitude. Last fall, she shared her experience at a Department of Health seminar.
āVery therapeutic for me to be able to do this. To be able to tell my story and to know that it was affecting people and reaching people,ā she said.