Coping with the loss of a loved one is even more difficult right now, due to the ongoing efforts to prevent the spread of the coronavirus.

“My heart breaks for them because they lost their mom or dad and they’re struggling with the fact that they can’t celebrate their life the way they wanted to,” said Thomas J. Pirro Jr., the owner of the Thomas J Pirro Jr. Funeral Home.

New York officials banned large gatherings to reduce the spread of the coronavirus. But Pirro Jr. says many people don’t want to put a moment like this on hold.

“The governor’s office is allowing immediate family to attend funeral services,” said Pirro Jr. “There cannot be a public visitation for the public to come in. But, immediate family can attend and also attend a graveside ceremony. The cemetery association is allowing that as well.”

Pirro Jr. says they still have to limit the number of people and enforce social distancing.

The State Department of Health's rules vary by the size of the funeral home. But, all are limited to fewer than 50.

“We’re trying to keep it under the original 50 in the building at once,” said Pirro Jr. “So, if family needs to do shifts of family members, they can probably do that, but most immediate family is probably under 50 anyway.” 

Pirro Jr. says his home also offers video streaming so all family and friends can say their final goodbyes. 

“If there was something I could do to better it, I would,” said Pirro Jr. “I think that’s why we’re constantly looking at different ways or opportunities to help them celebrate their loved ones’ life with the restrictions that we have.” 

Pirro Jr. says families are also holding memorials in the near future, hoping to get the closure they need.